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How To Avoid Empty Nest Syndrome

in Guest Post on 09/20/12

When children leave home to live on their own for the first time, parents or guardians may begin to feel a general sense of grief and loneliness. It’s a normal, healthy event when a young adult moves away to university or gets their first apartment, so many of the symptoms experienced by parents go unrecognised.

It’s typical for parents to feel like they’re experiencing a loss of purpose, and many more begin to feel depressed, however it’s very important that parents adjust their lives accordingly when their children ‘leave the nest’.

Symptoms

All parents will feel some form of empty nest syndrome when their child leaves home, however women usually find the transition a lot more distressing than men. Middle-aged women approaching menopause are extremely susceptible to the condition, as they’ll feel the change is stressful instead of refreshing.

Rejection is also a common emotion, and if a parent feels unsatisfied by their marriage, this can also enhance the syndrome, spurring thoughts of separation or divorce. Family law solicitors in Bradford report a number of cases ever year relating to married couples who experience relationship turmoil once a child moves out of the home.

Coping

Empty nest syndrome often causes parents to consider whether they’ve adequately prepared their child for leaving home, and fathers tend to feel guilt over lost opportunities and bonding. The biggest challenge parents face is trying to form a new type of relationship with their children, as well as finding something to do with all their free time. Many coupes try to reconnect with each other when their child moves out of the house; it allows them to experience opportunities they substituted for parenthood.

Parents who are looking to overcome the negative emotions of empty nest syndrome have many coping mechanisms available to them. Keeping in regular contact with sons or daughters is one of the best ways to confront the situation, whether it’s through phone calls, social networking or text messaging.

Parents are also encouraged to use their free time for hobbies and other interests that have taken a back-seat over the years, as well as openly discussing their feelings with their spouse. Holding back emotions related to empty nest symptoms are a major cause of depression.

Working

Full-time parents, women especially, can be left with little to do once their child has moved out of the family home. Getting back into employment helps overcome the negativity of empty nest syndrome, and it also instils a sense of confidence through job hunting and interviews.  When a child leaves the home to start their adult life, it should be seen as a positive change instead of a personal rejection.

University or full-time employment can teach young adults valuable life skills as well as providing opportunities that parents never could. With this in mind, parents should encourage their children to embrace new challenges outside the comforts of the home as this is where they’ll be able to discover their real interests, career paths and friendships.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I’m Michelle aka Powered by Mom. I’m married with one daughter, my hubby was my high school sweetheart, our two dogs Nyx and Cleo and our cat Oliver. As you can see we’re a family of animal lovers. We love to travel when we can, try different food and activities all over the world and enjoy being together. My passions are writing, travelling, creating new recipes, encouraging people to adopt not shop and just to enjoy life while we can.

As an animal lover I also volunteer with a rescue organization called Three Little Pitties All Breed Rescue. I'm part of the cat program Three Little Kitties Saving Kitties which tries to save as many cats as possible in Houston, Texas which has a huge overpopulation fo cats and they euthanize far too many cats (and dogs) we want to change that. Please check out their Facebook page and consider donating https://www.facebook.com/ThreeLittlePittiesRescueSavingKitties

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Comments

  1. Lori Hoffman says

    February 22, 2013 at 4:55 PM

    I was not expecting this expecting this to hit me as hard as it did when my youngest left home. I ended up going into quite a depression! It took a good year (or more) to get back to my old self. Thanks for sharing your article!

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  2. Deb Hall says

    October 21, 2012 at 6:27 PM

    Thank You so much I am just starting to go through this and its rough, My eldest daughter has moved out and my son made me a grandma all in one month so this will hopefully help

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  3. Lisa Carman- George says

    September 24, 2012 at 7:56 AM

    When I start feeling depressed I just start working on a craft project or do some deep house cleaning, it does help to stay busy.

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  4. PATRICIA BOOTH says

    September 22, 2012 at 2:39 PM

    I was not looking forward to my kids going to college. But not for long. They are here and there and my house never seems to be empty very long.

    Reply
  5. Jessica Dunn says

    September 21, 2012 at 7:08 PM

    I am not looking forward to my kids leaving home.

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