My Mom Cave
Every mom deserves her own personal oasis – a mom cave so to speak
That space where she can relax, enjoy a glass of wine, read a book and have some of her favourite snacks.
Being a Mom and wife is no easy feat. In fact, the two jobs combined have been my toughest ones yet and I’ve had my fair share of hard jobs in the past. I knew before I got married that married life wasn’t always going to be adorable and fun and over the years we’ve had our fair share of ups and downs but it wasn’t until we had our daughter that things really started to get interesting. Seemingly overnight my life became less about me and more about juggling the needs of my husband and little one. So many things changed in my life over the course of a few years, it seemed so hard to believe that I was the same person as when I started on my journey as a wife.
Here’s my favourite spot to relax. It’s my favourite couch and soft blanket where I go to read a book or watch a movie, or have a glass of wine.
Of course, the biggest change for me was going from having an abundance of freedom and free time to having hardly at all. Between family which includes our two dogs and one cat and work I’m often stretched pretty thin. There were days when I would have given just about anything to have a few precious minutes to myself without having to play referee to the kids or meet the ever changing needs of my husband. It’s not that I’ve never regretted my decision to become a wife to my wonderful husband nor do I regret becoming a mother but I know my fellow parents out there know what it’s like to not even be able to go to the bathroom without an entourage. Over the years I’ve learned to take that sort of thing with a bit of humour and it doesn’t drive me out of my mind like it used to in the early days when I used to be driven crazy by the sheer changes my life underwent.
This past year I came across an idea that I’ve been in love with and can’t believe that I never thought of it before seeing the idea. We’ve all heard of the classic “man cave” and I’m sure my readers have seen one or two in their time whether it be because of a husband or boyfriend. A man cave is a special space within your home or outside that is specifically designed to fit the needs and reflect the tastes of your spouse. They can house anything from pool tables to huge HDTV’s and your spouse can most often be found within when the pressures of life start closing in and he just needs a breather. When I came across the idea of a “Mom Cave” it was the most brilliant idea EVER. I mean, if men can have a space to call their very own then why shouldn’t we women be entitled to the same thing?
The best part of my research was that I knew we had just such a space in our home that I could use for my own “Mom cave.” As of yet I haven’t been able to decorate or furnish it the way I want but I have started using it for a sort of time out spot in the meantime until I can do what I have planned. In the meantime, until I get my motivation to transform the space, I’ve been dreaming up the ideal “she cave” and have some great ideas on what to include once I start the transformation.
My ideal “Mom cave” isn’t fancy by any means but it would be the ideal retreat when life gets me stressed. For starters, I would make sure my family knew that it was a space designed especially for me and that should they find me hiding within, I’m enjoying time to myself without any interruptions. For a Mom cave this is key. Then I would make sure I installed a bookshelf or two so I could pick out one of my favorite books at any time and read while enjoying the peace and quiet of my “Mom cave.” There are so many things that I’d want my “Mom cave” to have but one of my biggest wants would be a great view of the outdoors. There is nothing that relaxes me more than to gaze out on nature while enjoying the peace and quiet. Add some scented candles or an essential oil diffuser to the mix and my “Mom cave” would be the most ideal spot on earth.
Well, almost anyways. Everyone knows that no “Mom cave” is complete without a brewing system or a glass of wine and snacks. Ever since having kids it’s been the bane of my existence that I’ve never been able to take a single bite without my kids or husband clamoring for a bit of it too. In the seclusion of my “Mom cave” I’d have snacks galore that were meant for me and only me. On the list of snacks would be Twistos.
Twistos are baked snack crackers that are available in a variety of different flavors. Designed to suit the taste of adults, especially Moms who are looking to unwind after a long day, Twistos is the perfect snack to indulge in. Unlike other greasy versions of chips that we all indulge in, Twistos are baked and there’s no need to feel unnecessary guilt when you decide to sneak them into the “Mom cave” and indulge. Recently introducing two new flavors to their line of baked snacks, Twistos has a host of delicious flavors to choose from and are sold wherever Twistos Baked Snacks are sold; they can be found in the cracker aisle of mass retailers. Their yummy flavors include:
- Toasted Garlic and Rosemary
- Garden Dill & Cream Cheese
- Bruschetta
- Asiago
- Smoked Gouda
- Parmesan & Garlic
The Twistos brand believes that every mom should have time at the end of the day to unwind, because if anyone deserves to escape to an oasis of calm and tranquility, it’s moms. They did that for one mom, Monique who was nominated by her husband three children. Monique works full times, manages to bring her three children to 15 classes and extracurricular activities through the week and of course there’s managing the house. Yep sounds like a busy mom to me.
Watch the video on Monique’s Mom Cave Makeover below!
To learn more about Twistos you can connect with them on Twitter.
Erinn Lishman says
I absolutely LOVE the idea of the Mom Cave! While my husband is an awesome partner and dad to our three daughters, I can honestly say that me time is so important for moms- especially myself!- and necessary for recharging. The video is inspiring- the love they have for their mom is awesome and really comes through. I love the whole idea of the mom cave and plan to share this awesome idea with all the moms in my life!
Laurie Bolduc-Cadieux says
I have converted my garden shed into a she shed and I love it. It’s my mom cave!
Andrea Amy says
No Mom cave for me. I spend most of my time away from the kids in the Den (where my computer is). Its a really small room, and other than my computer its full of the kid’s stuff. I’d love to have a place in the house just for me, but the house isn’t big enough for that. Maybe one day 🙂
Marie Gibbs says
This is a good healthy idea.
Leslie Crosbie says
My mom cave right now is the bathroom! It is the only place or time I get to myself!
l p says
the new flavours sound great. can’t wait to try them. thanks
Laurie P says
I’m a little hooked on the Parmesan & Garlic Twistos Bites…..and I’ll admit, I have them stashed away so the guys here cannot have any!
I need a mom cave…..
Krista M says
I think all the new flavors of Twistos would be delicious! And as a mom of a child with special needs, I do feel I need that little bit of quiet time to myself in a space of my own to calm my thoughts. EVERY mom needs a break. Thanks to Twistos for this giveaway & for thinking of moms mental health!
Robyn Bellefleur says
Every mom needs a mom cave. We barely even get alone time in the bathroom so it would be awesome to have a space made just for peace and quiet for mom.
Dana Miller says
I love the idea of a Mom cave! It is so important to have a little haven to escape to and relax and take comfort. I am visualizing what I want my space to include to make it a little oasis. Comfort, warmth, access to natural light are key and a few little luxurious touches are enough.
Linda Manns says
This mom cave idea is great. I have set one up in my house. Mine is grandmas cave. Thank you so much for sharing this
Pam says
In some ways my office is my mom cave. It just needs a cozy reading spot and a supply of twistos.
Kathy Church says
I didn’t get my mom cave until my daughter left home but it’s great! I turned her room into my oasis and now even the grandkids know to knock before they come in and to leave when I tell them too. LOL! Have my books, crafts and snacks all right there. It’s heaven!
Travelbuds says
I would love to have a mom cave but I just don’t have room.
Brenda Witherspoon-Bedard says
I really wish I could have one of these spaces – our house is just to small
Jenness M says
You’re lucky you have a space that can be a mom cave. I’d love to have a space in my home for one, maybe someday.
Judy Cowan says
The Mom Cave idea is great, mind you we live in a small space so it might have to be a corner but that could be done too! Twistos make a great snack!
tracy k says
i am always looking for a great snack when i’m relaxing, this sounds delish!
Karla Sceviour says
That video is so touching and sweet! i`df love my own mom cave just for myself with loads of snacks and a big comfy couch!
Gord says
I always thought that women got their closets and men got their caves. I know I watch too many commercials that show this! Women can have caves too! Both my gf and I love Twistos and should probably put together a “couples cave”!
Barb W says
The Mom Cave idea is amazing and would have to include wine 😉
Angela Mitchell says
I’d love a mom cave but unfortunately our house just doesn’t have the space. I do have a special seat and blanket that is mine and no one is allowed to use unless I’m not around haha!
Florence Cochrane says
I took over my son’s bedroom when he moved out for Mom Cave. It is nice to escape once in awhile. I have tried some flavours of the Twistos snacks and like them.
Tina L. says
I would love my own cave and to try all the flavours of twistos
Sunshine G says
I’d love to make myself a mom cave – just not sure where we’d find the space!
Glogirl says
I learned that Twistos makes a variety of different products and flavours. I’m particularly interested in trying the Asiago flavour.
Lisa L says
How fun! I’m glad that you found a space in your home to be your mom cave. Our place however, is not big enough for either a man cave or a mom cave unfortunately, but I love the idea! I will keep this in mind when we buy a bigger house.
Jenn says
I too love the corner seat on the couch! It’s were I love to go and curl up and enjoy a nice glass of wine. I don’t have a mom cave yet but hopefully I will soon.
DebP says
I like to read about new products. Other than dill, they are all flavours I enjoy. I’m sure I can find uses for them in meal preparation. My husband and I enjoy many of the same things, so we don’t go for mancaves or momcaves.
Carol M says
I really like Twistos but did not know they had a smoked Gouda flavour. I’ll be on lookout for it.
Jana Liu says
Every mom should have a mom cave. If the guys have their own, why shouldn’t moms have a space to call their own? It doesn’t have to be a room, it can be a space for moms to relax and enjoy themselves
Jonnie says
I haven’t tried Twistos yet but I love the unique flavours they offer.
Wendy hutton says
I think a mo cave is necessary, yo do need time to yourself just to relax and regroup
Cheryl says
I dream of having a mom cave!!! I would have Asiago Twistos in there for sure they are my fave 🙂
Julie F says
I think a mom cave is such a good idea as we all need a break sometimes!
ginette4 says
Every Mom should have a Mom cave, I would love to have a place where I could sit and relax and to call my very own..it’s a great idea
Nena Sinclair says
Every mom should have a Mom Cave! It’s so important to take time to relax and have a place to unwind!
Heidi c. says
I love the thought of enjoying some yummy Twistos in my own personal mom cave. Now, that would be an amazing treat!
Sophia,M.,McConnery says
Yes I am looking at the flavors AGAIN and I want some!I do so love garlic,onions,and herbs!
Carol Denny says
Such a great idea for Mom.I love most of the flavors of Twitos.
Jasen H says
The two new flavours of Twistos sound totally amazing! I really like how happy the mom in the video looks.
jan says
I’ve been waiting for the day they come up with a woman cave rather than a man cave! Bring it on.
Rosanne Robinson says
I would love to have a cozy Mom cave to relax in, yours looks so inviting, it’s a great idea!
Darwin Chau says
I think moms deserve a space that is all their own. Moms are always sharing with the family and when mom needs an escape to clear her mind or to just relax, she should be able to get it away from it all.
Carole Dube says
I had kind of a mom cave for years, but never really got to enjoy the full potential of it until my children moved out. It’s my computer room and it is in the laundry room in the basement, but my children TV and computer room was on the other side. Now that I can truly enjoy it, It would be nice to decorate it with the help of Urban barn, and I could enjoy snack from twisto while watching my favourite TV show!
Lynda Cook says
To have my own little private retreat all to myself would be so nice, just a place to go where it’s quiet and no one bothering me!!
Tara Betterley says
I think as Mom’s we work hard! We need a place to be able to relax and obtain a few moments of peace. Maybe it is a corner to read a book, scrapbook or even scan the internet. We need those few minutes.
nicolthepickle says
I would do it just like you, a comfy couch and a bookshelf or two.
Belinda McNabb says
A mom cave even if just the corner of a room is a must. I have mine in the bedroom. A comfy chair where I can just curl up, read a book and be alone for a bit
Elena Stocco says
I agree that the hardest part of transitioning into motherhood was going from having free time to barely any at all. Before I had kids, I used to think that with a full time job and house to maintain I had no spare time lol… Boy did I learn a thing or two.
em says
it’s always a good thing to have your own space. i haven’t set up an area just for myself. i usually just tell hubby to leave the house for an hour or more to let me have some me time. he has his own man cave space and I respect that.
Toby says
I have a Mom cave and it’s my happy place or happy space 🙂 Filled with butterflies and pretty things, it’s a place I can go and gather my thoughts and ho ‘aaaaaaaah’. These snacks sound awesome, huge Smoked Gouda fan! 🙂
ivy pluchinsky says
oh how i wish i had a mom cave! would be so cool!
Tracy D says
I’d love to have a space of my own, with a little wine fridge and snacks. 😉
Anne Taylor says
I’d love to have a spot where I could go to be alone and do what I’d like to do. Twistos; I’ve never tried them but they sound delicious!
joy says
i would love to have a mom cave – my own place to go to chill and do what i want. A space with things i like, a place that is relaxing and happy and calming!
Amanda says
Mom cave is such a great idea! Everyone deserves to have a space just for them to relax in.
Julie says
Your “Mom Cave” looks so cozy. You can’t beat a good book and blanket!
Lisa says
This is such a great idea and those crackers look really good!
heather e.g. kaufman says
I would love to have a mom cave! These Twistos look so yummy.
Karen Giasson says
I have always had a spot in my house that I could go to to unwind. Now that my children are grown it is my bedroom. They always seem to find me though, lol.
Ireon Williams says
I love this idea
Terri S says
I love, Love, LOVE this idea!!! A Mom cave would be fantastic!! NO ONE ALLOWED IN BUT MOM!!! LOL!
Emily Adams says
I love the idea of a Mom cave! I have never thought of this and with being a busy mom, wife, etc this seems so great.
Lynn T. says
I’m not a mom or wife, but i know how important it is to have time to yourself to unwind and healthy snacks to keep you company.
I love anything that is crispy like chips without the grease
Michelle M says
You had me at Mom Cave! Tell my hubby all the time you want a man cave fine then I’ll just make my own cave! Love it! I haven’t seen these in stores yet but look delicious and the flavors sound amazing, gotta find them.
Jackie says
I love the idea of a Mom Cave! My husband has a spot in the basement. I wouldnt want to be down there though. I guess at the moment my “mom cave” will have to be on the couch….next to the dog.
Tenley Erickson says
It would be so nice to have an escape area! I really love the idea of a Mom Cave. I would have so much fun decorating an area with all of my favorite things! Also, Those Twistos sound delicious 🙂
crystal w. says
I love the idea of a mom cave, guys always have somewhere to run off too but what about us. We need this just as bad as them lol
megan says
This is great – every Mom needs a Mom-cave!
Michelle Catallo says
Would love a mom cave; heck, I would love 5 minutes alone in the bathroom!
P.S. The Twistos look delicious and are just my type of favorite crunchy snack; add cheese and wine to go please 😉
Christa Bengtsson says
I would love a Mom Cave. But I just don’t see it happening at all.
Angela W says
This seems like a great idea…a mom does need her own time even if it is for a few minutes a day.
Laurie Nykaza says
“Mom cave” sounds so amazing to have after reading this makes you want to create the special space we all deserve one!
ken ohl says
I would love to give my wife a mom cave this would be great
Johnna Horn says
Mom caves are the new thing! Wine and snacks and a private space.. heavenly!
Holly Thomas says
I do have my my own cave and love it!
Katherine McPherson says
My kids are grown and gone now so my whole house is my cave!
Darlene Carbajal says
This is awesome!
Carolyn Massey says
I sure need a Nana cave. Need to get away by myself to reflect or read or just peace and quiet. My grandson, his fiance and her two kids live here.
Jennifer H says
What a brilliant idea. I can’t believe it never crossed my mind. I definitely want a mom cave now!
Dotty J Boucher says
I absolutely love this, I wish something like this would happen to me. but then again , I am usually the one doing the do loll I think every mom out there deserves a little space of there own, even if its only the size of a closet.. you can still build something wonderful in it..
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Stephanie M says
A “mom cave” sounds heavenly to have a place to retreat when you need a mental health moment. Although I find I don’t need a break for too long before I miss the craziness in my life.
donna porter says
This sounds like a great idea for us moms…
Adriana says
These seem so good.
Melissa Crisp says
Omg yes! I love this idea. Mean have had their ManCaves for forever and it’s time mom’s have one too.
Gretchen Luper says
men have had man caves forever and it’s time now for us women to have a place to call our own.
Dawn says
I’d like to try the Parmesan & Garlic flavored Twistos. They sound delicious! I’d have to buy more than one bag though, since, like yours, my kids would want to share them.
Ann L says
I’ve never heard of this and would love one. It sounds like a fun get together to create one.
Genaia McClellan says
This is a great idea and in fact, I was in the middle of trying to design my own ‘she cave’ as we are doing renos at our house. I’m gonna try to have a secret drawer of snacks. 😀
Amanda Alvarado says
I don’t have a mom cave but I would love one!!! I go outside to get away and I almost always have a shadow following me out!
Amanda Alvarado says
I love the sound of your especially the wine!
Holly Schilling says
A mom cave would be difficult to come by for me. Mine would need to be sound proof so I don’t hear the kids screaming and fighting or the dog barking when friends come over. When all of my kids are older I do plan on using our 3rd car garage spot as a flower space even with a flower walk-in cooler. However that will be some time from now.
Michelle Elizondo says
Love the idea!
Jeri says
The kitchen is my mom cave. It’s my favorite place to be. It’s also where the wine is.
belinda bell says
I like idea of having a Mom cave. Have a little time to myself would be nice
Jeanna Massman says
I have had a “mom cave” for years and highly recommend them!
Brandi Dawn says
This is a great idea!!! Right now, my idea of a Mom cave is taking too long in the bathroom with the door shut and locked and sometimes that’s not even enough!
Laura says
My own “cave” sounds awesome. My husband has his office, why can’t we have one too? 🙂
Edye says
A mom cave sounds awesome! Even though I’m not a mom, I can only imagine how much a mother would appreciate it 🙂
Neha Kaul says
I’ve tried the Rosemary/Garlic Twistos- they’re absolutely delish! A “mom cave” is something we could all use in our crazy, hectic lifestyles- a sanctuary/refuge of sorts.
Susan Smith says
These look yummy The Parmesan & Garlic best look delicious.
Kim Pinch says
We have a sunroom that I have sort of taken over as my mom cave. I have a comfy chair, proper lighting for reading and have decorated it the way I like with candles and plants. Others can use it but I find my hubby and kids leave me alone when I am relaxing there.
DeAnna Keller says
I know so many Mom’s who would love a Mom cave, including myself!
Andrea Darst says
Every mom needs her own space/time – for our sanity!
laura says
Why haven’t I thought of that! OMG I want a Mom cave too!
john hutchens says
A mom cave would be a great idea for my wife
Hilary Mahoney says
While I am not a mom myself, a woman cave does sound great! It would probably become a craft room.
Debbie Yoder says
Love the idea of The Mom Cave! You always hear about the Man Cave ,we deserve one too!
Lisa Williams says
I would love to turn an empty bedroom I have into a mom cave,one of my kids moved out and the ideas have been churning in my head,trying to figure out what to do first. I have never tried Twistos but I know I want to try every one of the delicious sounding flavors to see which ones I like best!
tiffany c (@sweetmatcha) says
I love to relax on our sofa too! I’ve never tried the Twistos but the Toasted Garlic and Rosemary flavor sounds super delish! Will have to keep an eye out for these!
Linda Szymoniak says
Now that my three daughters are grown, I’ve taken over their old play room and it’s become mostly my space. The one daughter who still lives at home spends much of her time when not at work in it with me. We have a TV, a couch, a dining table and chair (I brought the set home from my mom’s when she passed – the rest of the chairs are in the basement) that my daughter uses for her laptop and drawing. I also have my dogs’ crates in the room, and while I don’t really put the dogs in them any more, a couple of them like to just lay in their open crates when I’m watching TV. I do need to get rid of some clutter in the room (some of my daughters’ things are still in here and mostly just piled up), and I’ve started stripping the wallpaper off the walls and am going to paint the walls when I’m done.
Dana Rodriguez says
I love the mom cave idea! I sure would love one.These sound delicious!
Debi H. says
My mom cave is an old bedroom that we converted into an art room. I have my desk, laptop, tv, bird feeders right out the window….it is wonderful.
Stephanie H. says
I think women deserve a “Mom’s Cave” as much as men need a “Man’s Cave”! Women work hard everyday and we deserve a place to unwind on a daily/weekly basis!
Maureen says
I know many Mothers who would appreciate a Mom cave. A place to go that is your own and have your own projects and just books that no one can mess with.
Rachel Mauffray says
I have no place to escape and call my own. This would be wonderful.
elizabeth miller says
I love the mom cave idea. We always hear about the man cave..it’s time someone flipped that switch.
Willette Mitchell says
Well I’m not a mother but when I become one I’ll keep this ‘mom cave’ idea!
Kimberley Thomas says
My mom cave is pretty much my bedroom. I say the review of Twisto’s and those delicious flavors are making me hungry! Immediately think they would be great with a spinach artichoke dip!! Going in the mom cave !
Lisa Brown says
My bedroom sort of is considered my mom cave: I always retreat to it in privacy. The snack looks great.
Angela Saver says
I love the idea of a Mom Cave! I’ve always heard of Man Caves, but never a Mom Cave. I am definitely going to work on my new comfy space, just for me!
Rita M says
As an empty nester and having a husband who gives me all the “me time” I need, I don’t really have the need for a “Mom Cave” –
but boy wouldn’t that have been nice while I was still working & raising my daughter!
Paol Trenny says
I love the idea of having a “mom cave”. I mean why not, there is one for the men in our lives so this make perfect sense. As for the Twistos, I would love to try the Garden Dill & Cream Cheese. Sounds delish!
Pat Schwab says
If only we had a little space for a mom cave. I can at least try some of the cracker snacks and pretend.
Heather G says
OMG! This is fab, ALL the Twistos flavors sound right up my ally! TFS
Dani H says
There’s not a flavor listed that I don’t think I’d enjoy.
Everyone needs a place and some time to relax, especially moms.
soha molina says
I love the idea of Mom’s cave. And that is a perfect snack.
Tandi Vidal says
Mom cave….what a great idea. I need one of those. 🙂
Zoey says
I love the idea of a “mom cave”!
desiree says
since i use my office and my brothe lift chair when ia m living room i guess my cave is my office and then i have things i need e book ocmputer tv
sheila ressel says
I would so love to have a mom cave. Right now I just have to make due with my little corner in the living room.
Dotty J Boucher says
This is so wonderful and yes all moms and nana’s need a room like this, I watched the video and started crying, it just warms my heart to see families realizing that We are more than just a woman, we are a person and we deserve to have our own space at that .
Linda Manns says
The Twistos sound great. I have never heard of these before. I will pick some up. My mom cave is my bedroom. I love to go there for quiet time and to relax. We all need this. Thank you so much for sharing
Kim Thorne says
It is very stressful for moms sometimes and they need a private place of their own to relax .I’m glad there is such places.
clojo9372 says
OOooh! I love Twistos snacks. One of my mom and my favorite past times is watching tv and snacking out. Twistos Bruschetta bites has become one of our favorite go-tos!!!
Laurie P says
yeah I need a mom cave too!
We love Twistos……my girl and I love the Parmesan & Garlic best!
Sarah Kurtz says
I am hungry and want a mom cave now lol… These sound delicious!
Jerry Marquardt says
The flavors look extraordinary. I will be looking for these at the store to enjoy.
Sophia,M.,McConnery says
Those flavors sound amazing!I am a savory person with a love for HOT and spicy!That cheese Asigo is very bitter and I love it too!
Heather H says
I recently won a silent auction for six hours with a personal organizer. I would love to make myself a mom cave with some professional help! Thanks for the idea.
Heather Johnson says
I will have to look for these and give them a try. They look like they will taste great!